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Member Since: February 6, 2008
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ok...so, like, i was thinking the other day, when your cherry is popped does that mean your virginity is gone?

and i dont mean gone by sex. like maybe by tampons or masterbating or fingering? like if its popped because a tampon did it or something and someone says "are you a virgin?" do you say "no, because i have never had sex." or do you say "yes, because my hymen is gone?"

im a very random person and this has been annoying me, so yeah. (link)
Congrats, your still a virgin. Until you have had sexual intercourse, you are still a virgin


I'm 17, my friend that I like is 19. So all of the signs point to this guy liking me (I'm not talking silly things like "OMGHELOOKEDATME" either) except for one: while texting, he never initiates the conversation. During the week our only form of communication is texting, because he's ridiculously busy working till the wee hours of the morning.(Like, from 11 in the morning till midnight) However, he never texts me first, he'll only start once I initiate the conversation. I went a day without texting him to see if he would, but he didn't. Otherwise, it seems certain that he likes me, but this really bothers me. Am I overreacting, or should I worry? (link)
The best way to figure this out, is to have a talk with him and ask him yourself. Ask him, if he's really interested in you, or if your just waisting your time. If he's says he is interested tell him you would like him to show you that he does, not just to think your going to be there all the time.


Is it a sin to have sex before marraige but then get married to the person you had sex with? Dont worry I didnt do this I was just corious! I know that sex before marraige alone is a sin, I just didnt know about getting married after sex. Thanks to whoever answers. (link)
I dont believe it is a sin to marry after sex. It is whenever you feel ready, and you need to live your life as you want, just dont go out of control.


Ah...my boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months this month and he has already got my valentine's day present all lined out...he's writing me a poem-type thing (lol dont know what its really called) and he's writing it in calligraphy and framing it...well, I honestly didn't think he was all that into v-day cause last year all he got me was a teddy bear...so I was just gonna make him a lot of candy and stuff and then write him a letter, but now I'm thinking that's not gonna be sweet or sentimental enough. and I really dont want him thinking i didnt put a lot of effort into his gift. So...any ideas? Thanks so much :) (link)
Hello,

I believe, buying him a very sweet card and writing an inside joke or something you guys have in common that he will smile about. Then get him some chocalotes.. feed it to him, hell like that =)




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