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Q: soo the guy i've been crazy over...well we arent really friends...and well i like him...we arent friends because we arent getting along and we went out three times...all times hes ended it. well we might become friends now and i would really like that!!!! but i mean i know to be myself and to talk and communicate and to be there when he needs a friend, and to respect him and if he wants his time to be alone then i respectt. but i know what to do and how to be a friend...but then again in the same way i ma completely CLUELESS!!!!!!!!!!! i mean this saturday my choir is going to kings island and hes going to go to...but i wont really see him...he isnt in my group...but if i see him what do i do...i mean we arent really at the talking stage, or looking at eachother while the other person knows it (but catch him doing it) :]
but i dont let him know i know....what do i do...do i wait for him to approach me...should i accidently bump into him..idk when it comes to him!!!

well if this is really someone you want to be friends with, you can either wait for him to come to you witch could take a long time because he could be waiting for you to do the same thing.. or go to him and brake the ice thats the first step, compliment him casually and then walk away and see his reaction.. is he looking at you? trying to make conversation back? if he is then thats good thats the first thing you have to do if you want to be friends with someone brake the ice and start making conversation

Rating: 5

yeah your right its just really hard to talk to him...i mean after all thats happened..if i say something i cant seem to get it out..i'm affraid that he hates me...or something...but he looks at me and it confuses me because he broke up with me and i wanted to be friends nd all...and just the way he acts makes me feel like he doesnt care..