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So, my name's Blake to start off. I live alone in a bachlour appartment and rather enjoy it. I'm a health nut for the most part and love things like martial arts and the likes. I'm also some what of a geek though in the sense of pretty much the only thing I watch is anime. I'm a very open person and I never really shy away from a question or topic. I've had to go through a lot of strange things already in my life so I help my experiences can help people on here. If you'd like to know anything in particular about me feel free to ask.


Hobbies:
Biking
Cooking
Photography
MMA
Wrestling (sure it could go into MMA but meh)
Playing with weapons
18+ rated activites
and I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now.



My universal advice (These are things that I would urge everyone to take to heart):

1) Drink more water, because I'm almost positive you're not drinking enough.

2) Excersize at least once every day. It only takes like 5 minutes to do a few push ups and sit ups, and no, it's not as hard as you may make it out to be.

3) Eat properly. Try to eat at best 6 smaller meals a day and to get all the food groups. Also try to limit your intake of junk food.

4) Try to find one thing about yourself that you like every day.

5) Don't have friends that will just drag you down. Trust me, they're not worth the effort and will just make your life a lot harder.

6) Don't focus on the negative things in life. If you keep a happy demeaner then you're life just seems to start working better.

7) Stop putting yourself down. If you think you're ugly/fat/both or whatever. Then either accept it or do something about it. If you keep going on about how your fat or whatever then that opinion will rub off on others. If you want to look good, then just believe that you do, it really is that simple. And if that's not enough for you, then refer to advice 1, 2, and 3.

8) Sleep more!



Finally, I have a challenge for everyone that has visited my page. For a week straight set a schedule for yourself. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, when you get up, do a set ruitine for an excersize (if you need help figuring one out just message me), make sure that you eat properly through out the day (no junk (come on, it's only for a week, don't make such a big deal out of it)), make sure you drink lots of water, make sure you get to bed at a good time (if you want to you can do another excersize before going to bed, you'll get the best results out of that), and then repeat the cycle the next day. I don't care what you're lifestyle is, if you do that for a week you will see a significant difference in your life. Although you will feel slightly sick for the first day or so due to your system being in shock.

Anyone that actually does that challenge I'd love to hear from and get their opinion/testomony/rant about wasted time.


And that's everything outta me for now. I hope that I can help at least a few people on here.
E-mail: ice232@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Nanaimo, B.C
Occupation: Militia/Computer Repairs/Misc.
Age: 19
Member Since: April 27, 2008
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i went on a "date" w/this guy(that i initiated) we went out for dinner, though we both never specified that it was anything more than that, and we hung out for a long time. i thought it went well, and he hugged me at the end.i didn't get any hint he wanted to see me again until he brings it up 3 weeks later randomly in the middle of our conversation.the 3 weeks leading to that i became upset b/c i felt maybe he didn't like me, even though he'd always become real happy to see me around.so even though this is what i wanted to hear him say, i guess 3 weeks of waiting overrode my enthusiasm.and later he convinced me to play intramural soccer w/him, i played one game and after the game he texts me and says "babe you're the best".and this is where it gets wierd: all of a sudden he changes and goes hot/cold switching and letting girls flirt w/him around me and not paying attn. to me. i don't understand. and now everytime i pass him by all he says is "will you play soccer?see you monday." he knows i can't play(it's too late at night) why is he being so annoyingly persistent? why would he care anyways, i bet had someone else had said no i don't want to play he'd leave them alone. i'm confused, i guess my question is how you think he feels about me. thank you for reading this and i'm really sorry for it being lengthy but any help would be very much appreciated. (link)
Have no fear, a male is here! Anyways, I'm pretty sure that he likes you. This is all probably his way of testing the waters. With him flirting with other women, it's either 1) he was judging your reaction and maybe hoping you'd get jealous, or 2) he's a dick and wasn't thinking (lets hope it's 1). He probably likes playing soccer with you because of several reasons, like maybe he just likes sharing an something with you that he likes to do. It might be his way of showing you a side of himself that not everyone gets to see. If that's the case then he's being persistant probably because he feels like it's the only way he can really show you what he's like.

You can tell that he obviously has feelings for you if he always gets happier when you come around. I think you might be overthinking some of this a bit. You should probably go talk to him and just ask him about it straight out though. If you want to be with him then see ask him if he wants you two to be a couple. If so then if he keeps flirting go reem him out. If he doesn't want to be a couple then it's probably best that you find out sooner rather then later.


Rating: 5
thank you for your insight and help in both my questions :)




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