So, my name's Blake to start off. I live alone in a bachlour appartment and rather enjoy it. I'm a health nut for the most part and love things like martial arts and the likes. I'm also some what of a geek though in the sense of pretty much the only thing I watch is anime. I'm a very open person and I never really shy away from a question or topic. I've had to go through a lot of strange things already in my life so I help my experiences can help people on here. If you'd like to know anything in particular about me feel free to ask.
Hobbies:
Biking
Cooking
Photography
MMA
Wrestling (sure it could go into MMA but meh)
Playing with weapons
18+ rated activites
and I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now.
My universal advice (These are things that I would urge everyone to take to heart):
1) Drink more water, because I'm almost positive you're not drinking enough.
2) Excersize at least once every day. It only takes like 5 minutes to do a few push ups and sit ups, and no, it's not as hard as you may make it out to be.
3) Eat properly. Try to eat at best 6 smaller meals a day and to get all the food groups. Also try to limit your intake of junk food.
4) Try to find one thing about yourself that you like every day.
5) Don't have friends that will just drag you down. Trust me, they're not worth the effort and will just make your life a lot harder.
6) Don't focus on the negative things in life. If you keep a happy demeaner then you're life just seems to start working better.
7) Stop putting yourself down. If you think you're ugly/fat/both or whatever. Then either accept it or do something about it. If you keep going on about how your fat or whatever then that opinion will rub off on others. If you want to look good, then just believe that you do, it really is that simple. And if that's not enough for you, then refer to advice 1, 2, and 3.
8) Sleep more!
Finally, I have a challenge for everyone that has visited my page. For a week straight set a schedule for yourself. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, when you get up, do a set ruitine for an excersize (if you need help figuring one out just message me), make sure that you eat properly through out the day (no junk (come on, it's only for a week, don't make such a big deal out of it)), make sure you drink lots of water, make sure you get to bed at a good time (if you want to you can do another excersize before going to bed, you'll get the best results out of that), and then repeat the cycle the next day. I don't care what you're lifestyle is, if you do that for a week you will see a significant difference in your life. Although you will feel slightly sick for the first day or so due to your system being in shock.
Anyone that actually does that challenge I'd love to hear from and get their opinion/testomony/rant about wasted time.
And that's everything outta me for now. I hope that I can help at least a few people on here.
E-mail: ice232@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Nanaimo, B.C
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Age: 19
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So, this guy really likes me, and I really like him a lot. He's amazing, and instead of him calling me "hot", He tells me I'm beautiful, incredible, amazing ect. And I love it, he makes me SO happy.(: But, he always asks "Wanna hang out?(:" and I always say yes becuase I really do, but then at the last minuet, I find myself making up things to get out of it. I still don't know why. My friend asked me the same thing! And I just realized, I have no idea. She thinks it has something to do with my dad leaving when I was like two, and I never got to know him. But I have no idea. Help? (link)
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Well, there could be a lot of different reasons about why. You could be afraid of getting hurt by opening yourself up to someone and as such you make sure to distance yourself from anyone that you might open up to.
On the other hand, it could be that because you didn't have a father figure in your life that you're just in some strange way afraid of being with guys.
Or maybe there's just something in your head telling you that you're not ready to commit to a relationship and you constantly avoiding it is your way of dealing with it.
If you really like this guy and you want to be with him, then my best advice for you is to face whatever is troubling you. If you can't figure out what exactly keeps stopping you then just force yourself not to make any excuses, get your friends help if you have to. It's probably the fastest way to confront whatever your issue is as well as to make a stronger bond with your guy.
Also, this is just a little bit of side advice coming from someone who's been around lots of people that have had similiar issues: don't be afraid to draw your strength from people around you. If you feel that you can't face this alone, then don't. Face it with your friends, face it with your guy, or anyone else that you can trust, because trust me, they all want to help you if you need it, and I can say personally there's nothing more painful then watching a loved one go through something that they wont let you in to help with.
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That was amazing advice, thank you so much. (:
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