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hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??
I have to admit, what you're doing is street smart. Its not your fault some people are sexually deprived and desperate. But it'd be even better if you were somehow helping your mom by it. Does she ever wonder how you're paying your bill? I know it may be the complete opposite of what it is you wanna hear, but if you got a job, that would REALLY be some help to you and your mother, in more ways than one. I know that as soon as I turn 16,that's the first thing i'll be doing. I don't think you should tell your boyfriend. Its dishonest, and it IS cheating, at least to him, but it would change nothing. I think the best thing to do is completely cut off all ties with this pervert, after you get that job, which you should hunt for ASAP. I don't know if you like my two cents, and frankly, I don't care if you rate me a one, I just thinks its what's best for all 3 of you.
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id been looking for a job everyywherre lol, and FINALLY found one, thank god :) but in between, when sh!t happens, you do what you gotta do ya know? thanks! :)
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