So, my name's Blake to start off. I live alone in a bachlour appartment and rather enjoy it. I'm a health nut for the most part and love things like martial arts and the likes. I'm also some what of a geek though in the sense of pretty much the only thing I watch is anime. I'm a very open person and I never really shy away from a question or topic. I've had to go through a lot of strange things already in my life so I help my experiences can help people on here. If you'd like to know anything in particular about me feel free to ask.
Hobbies:
Biking
Cooking
Photography
MMA
Wrestling (sure it could go into MMA but meh)
Playing with weapons
18+ rated activites
and I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now.
My universal advice (These are things that I would urge everyone to take to heart):
1) Drink more water, because I'm almost positive you're not drinking enough.
2) Excersize at least once every day. It only takes like 5 minutes to do a few push ups and sit ups, and no, it's not as hard as you may make it out to be.
3) Eat properly. Try to eat at best 6 smaller meals a day and to get all the food groups. Also try to limit your intake of junk food.
4) Try to find one thing about yourself that you like every day.
5) Don't have friends that will just drag you down. Trust me, they're not worth the effort and will just make your life a lot harder.
6) Don't focus on the negative things in life. If you keep a happy demeaner then you're life just seems to start working better.
7) Stop putting yourself down. If you think you're ugly/fat/both or whatever. Then either accept it or do something about it. If you keep going on about how your fat or whatever then that opinion will rub off on others. If you want to look good, then just believe that you do, it really is that simple. And if that's not enough for you, then refer to advice 1, 2, and 3.
8) Sleep more!
Finally, I have a challenge for everyone that has visited my page. For a week straight set a schedule for yourself. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, when you get up, do a set ruitine for an excersize (if you need help figuring one out just message me), make sure that you eat properly through out the day (no junk (come on, it's only for a week, don't make such a big deal out of it)), make sure you drink lots of water, make sure you get to bed at a good time (if you want to you can do another excersize before going to bed, you'll get the best results out of that), and then repeat the cycle the next day. I don't care what you're lifestyle is, if you do that for a week you will see a significant difference in your life. Although you will feel slightly sick for the first day or so due to your system being in shock.
Anyone that actually does that challenge I'd love to hear from and get their opinion/testomony/rant about wasted time.
And that's everything outta me for now. I hope that I can help at least a few people on here.
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16/f.Lately ive been trying to masturbate while watching porn but I just cant get turned on. I used to get aroused really easily, even when watching a tv show. Ive tried different places, different techniques and I noticed the right atmosphere helps..but then when i start getting turned on its like I remember what Im trying to do and it just goes away..and when i try to masturbate my mind constantly is jumping to other thoughts, like 'this is stupid' or 'nothings happening' or 'im wasting time'. Also, I kind of know Im putting too much pressure on myself so Im not doing it spontaneously enough. Its like im consciously ordering my body to enjoy itself and reach orgasm, but I just cant. I also have never reached orgasm so Im not sure what to expect. Porn just isnt having the effect on me that it used to, but I noticed that girl-on-girl action is much more appealing than a guy's sexual parts involved. Whenever I feel slightly turned on and a guy's cock(sorry to be so frank) comes into the picture, I lose all stimulae whatsoever, not like there was much in the first place. Thanks (link)
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Well, for the most part, you're right about putting too much pressure on yourself. You need to not try to force things because it really doesn't work. First off you should really wait until you're actually in the mood before trying to masturbate, secondly, when you do start don't try to force yourself to orgasm or anything like that. It's a natural thing and if it's going to happen then it will without you stressing yourself out over it.
Of course that's not to say that there aren't things you can do to make it easier for yourself to orgasm. The biggest thing you can ever do is just learn to relax and enjoy it, don't sit there waiting for the climax. Besides that there's other little tricks you can do. Physically speaking, there's little excersizes you can do on your kegal muscle (it's the one you'd use to stop yourself when you're peeing). To work out that muscle squeeze it for 5 seconds then release it, do that 15 times, 3 reps a day (So pretty much you can do it with breakfast, lunch, and dinner). Doing that will both help you improve your sex drive as well as increase your ability to oragasm and make it possible to have them faster and more frequently (in other words can make you able to have multiple orgasms).
If your thinking your biggest problem is just not being able to stay turned on, then there's mind trick you can play. First off, don't do anything sexual to yourself for a while, even if you get turned on. Set a date for when you'll allow yourself to masturbate again and make sure you hold out till then, till that time feel free to fantasize and tease yourself as much as possible, because the more you do the more intense you can make it for yourself. When the time comes around your body will be extra sensitive from the lack of attention. This trick is also good in relationships for couples.
Finally, the last thing you need to remember is that sexual activity actually takes a lot of energy from the body. This means that things like not eatting properly and not sleeping properly will have a massive effect on how your body will respond. Also, things like how active you are on a day to day basis will also effect it. Excersize is a great way to increase your sex drive (it releases most of the same chemicals into your system as sex).
Well, I hope this helps you. If you have any more questions just drop me a line.
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