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Q: Well i met a guy recently who is really sweet and hilarious. I am into like studying astrology because it is very interesting and sometimes accurate but in this case it seems that i would not usually be attracted to his sign --a cancer, when i am a sagittarius. But despite that i feel this connection with him, like when we talk i dont have to pretend to be someone im not. I mean most guys i have met i end up having some make-out session with and i never get to talk to them. But in the little time i have spent with this guy we mostly talked and he kissed me once. So i hear that he wants to ask me out this weekend, but i don't want to rush into this because in the past i have rushed into relationships and they end really fast. But i also don't wanna tell him that i dont want to go out with him right now. Im not sure what to do but maybe some advice would help =D
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You can go out with him and still take it slow. When you start dating him let him know that you really like him, but that you want to take the relationship slow. I'm sure he will understand. I think it's great that you have a connection with him and that you want to move slow with life. Having a connection with someone is very important when having a relationship and when you find this connection grab on to it and see where it goes.

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thank you, you are right about the connection thing because a lot of the time people date for the sake of making out which is stupid.

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