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Q: okk so i broke up with my bf sunday but i am still like holding on in a way and i know im being so stupid but i dont know what to do. dont give me crap bjust tell me what to do to stop thinking about him!! keeping busy doesnt work cause even when i do something i still think about him. but ya i dont want to hear a bunch or crap about relationships and stuff EVERYONE keeps telling me that stuff-i just want ways to GET OVER HIM. please help me!
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I know exactly what you are going through, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about 8 months ago and moving on was the most difficult thing I have ever done. Everyone told me that I broke up with him so it should be easy for me to get over him, but what they don't understand is that that person was a part of you and even if you aren't in love with them anymore, they will always be a part of you. Things will always remind you of them and getting those out of your head is not easy.
Friends were a lifesaver for me after our break-up. They kept my mind away, but when I wanted to talk about it they were there. Another thing that helped was he and I stayed friends, that let us talk to one another about what happened and it was easier to let go when he was still going to be around. I know it feels like he will never get out of your head, but I promise it will get easier, yes things will always remind you of him but it always gets easier. It may take sometime, but it comes.
Hope I Helped.
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I am a 19 year old female. I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet. I am funny. I am free-willed. I am a lover. I am a friend. I have been through alot & many people call me their guru. & I will try to give you the healthiest advice possible. I may be young but I have a lot of life experiences in many areas, and since my career will be giving advice I figured I'd give a head start. I can be blunt and will give you my honest opinion, although I will do it in a nice way.
I am married to an amazing guy, we have been together since my Junior year & we can't be happier. I have 2 dogs & they are my babies, life wouldnt be the same without them. I am going into my 2nd year of college, I plan to get a degree in Radiology.
I am currently really busy in my life but I will answer any and all questions that are sent to my inbox. I do my best to get on & answer as many questions as possible whenever I am on. If you wish for me to answer one of your questions please submit them. Thanks.
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Gender: Female Age: 19 Member Since: July 27, 2007 Answers: 552 Last Update: January 24, 2013 Visitors: 39295
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