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Q: so basically, I have started to like my friends ex, thing is, you know it's her ex. I've recently stopped talking to her because of an argument, and I'm not sure if it will ever be resolved properly anyway. He so lovely. she dumped him, and she didn't even like him to start with, and nothing happened, they didn't even kiss but they hate each others guts, and I'm still mates with some of her friends, so I don't know what to do, could I please have some help.
Wow this is a very common difficult situation. It is so hard not to step on someone's toes and piss them off. If you really like this boy then you probably need to talk to your friend and ask her how she feels about it, if she says it is okay then go for it, if not then maybe wait for a little while.
If you try and date him too soon it will probably start a huge fight with your friend and all of her friends that you are friends with too. It would probably best to let things cool down with them.
And yes I agree with the person below me: how long have they been broken up and how long did they date?

Hope I Helped.

you actually did thanks, I need to talk to her. thankyou xxx

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