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Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?
well first you need to actually figure out if you really, truly have feelings for him...because you said you think you might but you need to know for sure... and then i think the only thing you can do is ask him about it...for all you know he could really just be using you...but talking to him about is just something you need to do, its something you deserve to know...because you dont need to be waiting around for something that may never happen...and you dont want to just give up and always wonder what could have been...so just be like hey i need to talk to you about something...and then just bring it up...you deserve to know
(Rating: 4) thanks but also like he isnt using me because if he was he would have tried to do more with me then making out cuz we have hung out a lot of times and hes really outgoing but im not sure if he would like me