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13/F

I have this really big problem. My ex-best friend has this boyfriend who makes fun of me and threatened me yesterday. And she doesn't even care. So after he threatened me I was really shaky and I started feeling like I was going to throw up... so my step-dad picked me up from school. Anyway, I dont feel safe at school, so before I left school me and my step-dad went to the principal and vice principle and told them that i have been recieving threats. Even if he was kidding; 1.) you dont joke about that 2.) how could I tell if he was going to actually kill me or not? anyway back to the story. So now that I told on him everyone is against me. Please help

They'll be mad, but if they are your real friends, they will understand your reasoning. Just explain that you felt unsafe, and they should respect that. If they don't, they aren't real friends. You can apologize to your friends, but maybe you need to take a little break from them and hang out with some other friends. In time, they'll forgive and forget. If they are mature, it shouldn't take long at all.
xxtiffany
ps. You were right to stand up and tell someone what was happening to you, don't be afraid to stand up to your friends

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much
you undersatand my situatation a lot
god bless ya

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