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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two months, and i used to really like him. i had liked him for almost a year and then once we got together (maybe after a month or so) all of my stronger feelings for him just faded away. i was positive that i was in love with him when we were just friends, but now i can barely stand him at times. it seems like i can't even flirt with other boys and that sometimes bothers me. i feel like i was waiting for just so long and then once i finally got it, i wasn't into it anymore. this has really been bothing me because i don't know if i should break up with him or just wait and see. i'm his first "official" girlfriend and i'm afraid i'll crush him if i break up with him. please help me!!! what should i do??
i think you should break up with him... youre not being fair to him or yourself...when youre in a relationship yeah things arent going to be perfect but you have to want to make it work...and for the most part you really shouldnt have the urge to flirt with other guys because no one compares to the boy you have...guys can flirt with you but you shouldnt want to flirt back...okay and lets say you stay in this relationship to wait and see and you find out you really dont want to be in a relationship...its only going to be harder for him in the end! you dont want to keep pulling him in deeper and making him believe in something that isnt really there...theres nothing wrong with maybe taking a break for awhile with him... you know then you could flirt and stuff and figure out how you really feel for him... i think it will be easier for you to realize whether or not you should be in a relationship with him...
(Rating: 5) thanks, you've really given me alot to think about. i think i know what to do know. you really helped alot =]