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i cant stand being with my bestfriend anymore we've been close for like 9years now, since forever but she totally pisses me off very so often! like i can never forgive her for throwing things in my face while we were younger, also! she always like the guy i like, last year i told her i like this guy, then she went after him! but he didn't like her, he said she was too weird and not his type, the whole school knows about it, and yeah we have some really good times, but others shes a complete total female dog! i can't stand her gusts! i let her stay at my house after school every day because she lives far away and her mom picks her up at like 8 or 9pm, then a few months ago she told me she can just come and go as she pleases, its her decision that she could stay or not at my house, she acts as if my house is her house and she can come and go as she pleases, i convinced my parents to let her stay, my parents said if it makes me happy, so shes here, but she thinks shes always right about everything, so when she started to go to my school she became worst of who she was! she took all my friends away from me, dyed her hair like 10times to get attentions from others, and she disses only about EVERY guy i like, its soo annoying, i cant tell her to just leave after 9 years, im so confussed, she lies to everyone about her, making everyone at my school like completely hate me and choose her over me, im hurt realy bad of what shes done, and she makes her mother more miserable then anyone, she threatens to kill her self of she doesnt get what she wants, my parents dont like her at all, since we were younger my parents dont like her because she was a bad influence, i got soo sick of my friends staying over for sleep overs and everything and say how great or wonder she is,...she came over once to my house over the weekends and totally liked like bestfriends with my friends, and laughed at me,...she thinks she knows everything about me, well shes wrong i hate her, but i dont wanna loose her, advice please? (link)
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I was in the same dilemma a few years ago, so i know how it is. My best friend and I were like sisters, then she started acting like someone different. I know you don't want to lose this girl as your friend, but neither did i. It sounds to me like your friend is using power and control over you so she can get what she wants. Confront her about it, or if you're scared to talk to her alone, talk to an adult you trust first and have them call her over, so the three of you can talk. Tell her that you are hurt with what she is doing. You miss the old her, and your parents are fed up with her attitude. You do have a right to tell her you don't like what she is doing. Just don't do it in a mean way. If she still continues to act with a horrible attitude, ditch all your "friends" and find new ones. Remember, if someone isn't willing to hang out with YOU because they think someone else is "cooler" or "more fun", they don't deserve to be your friends at all. I found that out the hard way, but you don't have to.
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I can't, awesome advice but i cant confront her, she just totally not that kind of person who cares, at all
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