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i know that alot of people have problems with other people dating with ehh kind of a big age difference..well i met this guy, he is the best, sweetest, kindest person with the most respect for someone,he would give you the shirt off his back to some one who needed it! and he is also protective but in a GOOD way!i love everything about him!! he has always been there for me, i can tell him anything!! he always keeps an open mind and listens to what i have to say. he NEVER gets angry with me! well we dated and i ended it because i was to affraid of my feelings, they were growing to quick. and well i love him and i cant help it. but see i have spoken to his gf.. and she really likes him.. and i dont want to let her get hurt for something that i could cause..i already tried to not talk to him but....and also he doesnt live where i do anymore. i was thinking that maybe just maybe when i get out of college and stuff that i could try to find him again..? all i can do is wait..and if i dont wait (which i dont think i wont wait) i dont want to hurt anyone and i dont plan to..should i just try to date other guys until then? i KNOW i will still love him. and by the way he is 17..
i know that he still cares for me but he thinks that we are best friends..true and real friends.
all i can do now is just be there..

help would be sooo great!

The best relationships, the ones that last, usually always start with true friendship. Waiting is a good option, but it wouldn't hurt to try to talk to him. Maybe you can talk to him about how you feel and see what he says about it.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot i'll take you up on that
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