Q: 14 / f
I go to an alternative school, and we have very small classes of 5-10 people. There's a certain boy in my class who I really do like him a lot. He's nice, and he's showed and expressed interest in me -- but the problem is he can only seem to say it when he's high. He'll flirt with me in class, and call me later in the night and I can tell that he's completely gone, and he says things he usually wouldn't. He seems to want to get high at every turn. I've never done drugs or had any interest in them, so I have no idea where he's coming from.
I'm put off by the fact that he's a pot head, but at the same time I can't just stop liking him all together. He asks me to come hang out with him all the time, but I don't want to be around him when he's like that, so I always say no.
What possibly annoys me the most is that I know he has interest in another girl beside me. I know that he says pretty much the same things to her that he does to me, and I don't really understand it. I don't really understand him. I really don't know what to do about him.
Should I forget about him?
Am I right to be bothered by the fact that he's a pot head?
And why does he only really tell me he likes me when he's high?
Thanks so much.