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Q: hi. ok so my problem: i dont know how to be friends with boys.

like i have this one boy i used to be best friends with in Kansas and im moving back there and just got done visiting him and it was great but now idk what to text him about. and i just dont know how to be friends with boys. im only friends with boys if i like them and then we just flirt but i have a boyfriend and everything so i want just some cool guy friends. and this summer (when i move back) hes gonna introduce me to all his friends and i dont know what to talk about with them cause i dont really like sports (or understand them) so i dont know what to do. i dont want to look dumb. please help me! and also sometimes boys tease kinda meanly just cause they are guys but i dont know how to respond and i look stupid! like i dont know how to play banter with guys. i can with girls cause i understand them and everything but guys are so different. and i have no clue what to talk about with guys. they like cars, sports, and girls and i dont know anything about cars or sports and im not going to talk to them about girls! haha

thank you so much and i will rate :]

Guys are very simply creatures usually haha, though they can be confusing. Just message him asking him you know what he's doing, how he's been, what he does in his spare time etc. As for the banter there is really no way to explain how to do it just act like its a girl. There is no need to get nervous and freeze up. Laugh and say something back quickily after you burn them a few times they will back off.

Hope I Helped.

Rating: 5

thanks!! :]

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