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17/f
i love this guy. he's amazing. we've been friends for awhile now and he's good friends with basically all my close friends. in the beginning of the year when i was just meeting him someone got the word out that i liked him, but at that time i didn't like him cause i barely knew him, i just thought he was cute and nice, he found out that i "liked" him and told one of my friends that he wanted to get to know me more and he still had a little something going on with his ex (which he doesnt anymore, he told us that he hates her) 4 months later (now) hes been doing things like jumping out and scaring me and locking me in closets and stuff,kinda in a cute way though, if you know what i mean. i texted him the other night and the topic came up where i said something like "oh lol i thought it was because you hated me" and he said pshh no definetly not. it's my senior year and his too and i want something to happen before we both graduate. thanks so muchh
*edit* Most guys are usually really straight forward with things. If you do tell him, the absolute WORST that could happen would be for him to tell you he'd prefer to remain friends, and even that is better than nothing. But because I REALLY doubt he would reject you, just because he seems like a typical guy trying to flirt, I'd really suggest testing the waters. Like I said before, you should tell him in private. Don't be too direct, but make sure you absolutely get to the point, otherwise you'll be interrupted before you can finish and it'll be hard to start the convo again later. Start with smalltalk, and then work your way into a more serious type of chat. You could even reveal some funny little unimportant secret to move it along faster and to let him see you trust him. If you think its appropriate, you could even wait for a silent moment and say "I think I've fallen for you" or "I like you" very abruptly, like a band aid. If you really feel something for this kid, I don't see why you should wait any longer to be with him. You're 17 and you should be doing anything to make yourself happy. Lol, it really is easier to give advice than to put it into practice. Anything else, don't hesitate to ask
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if i were to talk to him, what would i say? i've never done this before, im really shy when it comes to this cause i dont want to ruin our friendship but i really really like him
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