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My name is Chrissie.im seventeen. I'm a sophmore at keystone oaks. i'm going to a trade school for cosmetology, its what im super into, so i know alot about that if you need it.(: i get screwed over by boys aloot.. and i change my mind often which is never a good thing. i went through alot of stuff, stuff you wouldnt even believe, and im not gonna sit here and complain i have a bad life, cause i dont. everything got so much better and i just wanna try to help people with stuff i got through so they can get better too. (=
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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
OKAY..=]
well im 15 too. and i lost mine last year. with a boy im still with.. he was exactly like yours is. saying i want it to be special and i want you to be happy all of that =]
the fact was.. it waset special.. we ment for it to be but by the time i said yes. we were into it to much and i was like go for it.. his parents were down stairs. but he was sweet and put on nice music and turned of the lights and if your both going to be virgins.. go slow casue it will be quick ahah..
its going to proably hurt. and he will cum fast.
but thats how it is the first time. mine wasent really secial but i wouldnt trade it for the world
=D
some ideas to make it Special are hard to say.. aha.. there is not much you can do.. go to dinner that day.. at a niceish place.. make sure everything just in a happy mood. not much you can do but a nice surprize he should do would be like just as you walk in the door.. dont turn on the lights. close your eyes and have him lead you upstairs. have love song ons.. you know the sad songs that just make you wanna cry.. dont rip your cloths of just take thm off of eachother slowley.when your the mood touching eachother is more sensitive.. so lightly brush your fingers over eachother before. trust me it feels amazing.. maybe he can even give you a message =] if he is good at those. and just go slow.. were a condom!! and make sure its like wet.. lubed..
casue you will be tight and it will be easer to go it. and after just lay in eahothers arms.. fall asleep.. and wake up..and feed eachother a sweet cake lol =D i always loved that..
kay hope thats good for you. =]
(Rating: 5) Lol, thanks. I'll keep all that in mind. :]