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Im 17, I started having sex 2 years ago. I now have a different boyfriend and we've been together for a year now. I started taking birth control over the summer and recently we stopped using condoms but I've still been taking my pills. Recently it started to hurt during sex, like a hard pushing or stabbing feeling. Then I started bleeding while having sex and that has only happened 3 times and not every time we do it. Then the pain just kept getting worse and now we haven't had sex in a while because I don't want it to hurt. I've been really worried about it. And now my period is 5 days late. What is wrong with me?
I am not an MD, so I cannot correctly diagnose, however I think that you should make an appointment with an OB/GYN as soon as possible. These things are (not to scare you) but not typically normal. This is something that is abnormal, and something you should ask a doctor about. As cliché as it might sound, just tell your mom you'd like to make an appointment. She'll be more impressed that you're being mature and approaching her about it, than hiding it. All I am trying to do is let you know - you need to get it taken care of. Do it for yourself. Because if something is wrong, you want to make sure it's being fixed or taken care of.
I wish you the best, and hope all is well.
If you need anymore advice, I'm always here.
Best of luck.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice! I knew these things were abnormal and that I'd eventually have to tell my mom, but I just wondered if anyone had any idea to what might be the problem. But, I added some more things if you could go take a look, I'd appreciate it. :)