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my best friend is liking this one guy; lets call himm steve. And lets call her Macy. (link)
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She could really be falling for this guy, and I as I see, you're being pushed aside every time like you don't exist. I know the feeling, she's not the only person I know that does that to people, best friends, and family too.
As soon as a guy that they are so interested in, is in their reach, they aren't going to let him go that easily. That's when they lose focus on their own life, and mixing up their priorities.
Try to catch her alone, so her mind isn't to much into "Steve". Express your feelings, make her understand that by revolving her life around "Steve" its putting a strain on your friendship. Make her understand, that you've always been there for her, long before this particular guy came along. If she doesn't get it, let her know you can't continue going through with this, and the best way to live your life, is to let her go.
It can be a temporary thing, sort of like a silent treatment in a friendship.
Then it leaves her with no choice but to make the right decision.
If she let's "Steve" go, you can encourage her, that she'll find someone that wont interfere with your friendship.
And if she doesn't let him go, then you know, that you would continue being pushed aside until you've had enough.
And yes, you might just be losing your best friend to a guy.
Hope everything goes well.
Good Luck!
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awesome advice;;
thanksssssssssss!!!
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