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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me xadvice
Ok so for the past pear or so my mom has been very negative towards me... She is always putting me down and telling me I cant do things. I can even ask her a simple question without her turning it into somthing bad and yelling at me for it. I used to be able to talk to her and now Im afraid to say anything. I tried talking to her about it but she turns it all around and makes me feel guilty for telling her how I feel... Let me tell you that I have had depression since I was 12 and have gone through some very tramatic things that kinda makes fear anything sexual which my mom doesnt seem to care because her and her boyfriend are worse than a couple of hormornal teenagers and they are loud... It gets tot he point were I start crying and have to turn music up really loud.... She just yells of course If I ask her to not dot hat stuff when im around.... Im honestly lost here and it doesnt help that I have this depression hanging over me! I dont know what to do... and im sorry this is so long hahah I just keep alot in
Maybe you should write her a note, I know its not exactly a brilliant way to comunicate and get across how you feel but if you write it all down maybe you will feel better for it. Just say to her "I feel like I can't talk to you so ive written everything I want to say down" Because she usually changes everything round to blame you before you actually get to talk about it, if she reads it all she might start to realise that she doesnt listen listen to you properly.
If you dont want to write her a note, you could talk to her boyfriend about it (that is if you get along with him and feel like you can talk to him)
Another option could be to stay with a friend or a family member for a few days to give you and your mum abit of space.
I hope this helped and I hope things get better soon
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(Rating: 5) Thanks alot I really apprieiate it. Im thinking about trying it. :)