I am a 20 year old college student majoring in Psychology. I have had many experiences thus far in fields of love, loss, school, family, and so on. I have this great ability to listen to people and respond with the best advice possible. I am great with dealing with the recovery from the loss of a loved one (can relate to a death in the family as well). I am also very good at analyising problems within the fields of living arrangments, school/grade problems, family problems, time crunch problems, and relationship problems. I am alse really good with what people view as the "weird stuff." I've taken many Psych classes on personality, thoughts, dreams, and everything in between. So, if you have random questions along those lines, don't be afraid to ask (nothing is too weird for me)! Like my username says, I'm here for you! I have a lot of experience and knowledge I want to share so hit me up and I'll try to help you out as best I can.
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I am having so many problems with my recent breakup! I can't stop wanting him and thinking of him! I need him!
People say go out and live your life and flirt...but I just can't flirt. I never could!
I don't want to cry anymore and I want someone to make me feel better!
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I think you just need to get outside and do something productive! I suggest not hiding emotions though, don't go find someone just so you stop crying because you'll be with them for all the wrong reasons. Just keep youself busy, hang out with friends... I don't know, do whatever it is you do that makes you happy. But don't go looking for another relationship right away because it will only make things worse! Have fun and keep your mind distracted and happy! I've been through this before so let me know if you have any other questions, hope that helped!
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Wow, your situation is sounding more and more like mine! I was in a college dorm situation where we had all the same friends and couldn't get away from each other. I'll be honest, it was not easy to get over, I had the same feelings where every time I saw her, I wanted to be with her, it made it even harder knowing she didn't feel the same way. I went through this stage where I spent a fair amount of time to myself just collecting my thoughts and restarting my life. I starting meeting new people and finding other places away from her to hang out. Eventually, my old friends sort of just followed started to realize it hurt me to be around her, so they split their time. At the same time, my life was very complicated (death of a loved one, police trouble due to the break up, bad grades, etc.) and I ended up leaving school and moving back home to recover. Don't let yourself get to the point I did, get out there and meet new people and have new experiences! Sorry for the long story, I hope everything works out!
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What if you think the only way to be happy is to be with him? and that all your friends are always around him and you can't get away from it?
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