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Okay wel sorry if this will be long but i have a lot to say and i need an ear to talk to...

I used to like this boy a long time ago (last year) and i told him how i felt and it pretty much just scared him off. But i got over that and now i like this one guy, cj, but he is different than drew (he was the guy i liked first) i dont know why but i just care more about him and i want him to want me like i want him. You know what im saying. But im not obsessed or anything like that. He had a girlfriend and i waited.

At one point i thought he liked me. Because we never talked at all, and he would look at me, until i caught him, then he would look away. And he threw a paper ball at me. Then like 5 weeks ago he told me he had a girlfriend and all, but it came up casually in a conversation. And about a week ago, he was seriously flirting with me, and this past tuesday i found out that him and his girlfriend broke up. Now we still talk and everything, but i am having self doubt.

I feel like i am getting my hopes up and i dont have a chance. He is a senior and i am a freshman but im 15 and hes 18...only three years, and we are a small community and the senior boys arent really like players, well most of them. But he is really nice and sweet. I dont want to ruin it by coming on too strong. But he was saying that he likes to talk about his feelings and he is sort of a romantic and likes a girl thats fun and has a sense of humor, (which is pretty much me in a nutshell) and he said i can be dumb funny and cute at the same time... he was teasing me and touching me with his arm constantly. I just mesh with him...

But:
1) Do you think i have a chance at all?
2) do you think he was just being nice while he was flirting or is there something there?
3) Do you think i am getting ahead of myself?
4) How should i handle this? Normally i would tell a guy i liked him as long as he dont have a girlfriend and he dont but he is the only one i have ever had trouble dealing with this. Like im not nervous or anything..you know what i mean?

Sorry its so long but i need guidance.. :)

1. I would say most deffinately. This has to be the cutest story. While I was reading I was all "aww this is too cute" lol. But anyway..

2. I don't think he was just being nice. Most people wouldn't go this far if they didn't care. I mean, its possible he would like to be friends but I doubt it. Plus he's a senior. Now I don't hardly any senior who would bother with a freshman unless they were really interested. And if he is ineterested I don't think its just a simple crush.

3. Its possible that you WILL be. But at this stage I would say that your confused and struck. Continue with your feelings but don't go too overboard and worked up to the point of obsession if that's what you're asking.

4. The big question. I say play it out. It all depends on how long the relationship (or friendship) is. If its gone on long enough (and only you can decide but don't just like give a week you know) go for it. Now when I say "go for it" I don't mean through yourself at him and tell him that your in love (or in like) with him. That could potentially phase him. Just invite him somewhere, and if you can't do that then try going somewhere special.private before, during, or after school. Tell him how you feel. The same story you told me (but not ALL of it obviously). Maybe even tell him about the past boys nonchalantely and what ended up happening and tell him how he's different. How you really feel but maybe you shouldn't get too serious. And don't send this in a note, text, or email. This needs to be in a situation where you can both talk.

I sincerely hope I helped.

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(Rating: 5) you really did help and not to be too forward but i love you for it...ha ha sorry i had to go there.. :) but seriously thank you!
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