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im a freshman girl, ive been in relationships before but only w/ guys my own age in like 8th grade were we kissed and thought it was a big deal. ive been flirting with this junior guy, (gorgeous and could get anyone) he called and asked me if i wanted to hangout last night so i had him over. lets just get to the point, we made out a lot, he felt me up, and i wouldnt let him do anythign else. I feel kinda bad, i dont like this guy really he's cuteee and so sweet to me (and when he met my parents). i dont think he's using me but im kinda using him i mean i dont love him or anything like that not even a crush. is this slutty? its highschool your supposed to have fun right? (link)
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Don't feel bad, or take that into any negative thought. As long as your not "fully" involved with this person, you're fine.
But the real problem in this situation is:
You don't really like him, and he has no idea. Both parties should be ok to be "kissing buddies" as long as there's no real attachment. By not including him in on your true feelings, its not fair to him.
You have to let him know what your only intentions are, see if he is willing to go forth with it. And take things from there.
Slutty? No, I don't think so, if you slept with him, it may be in another story. But again, think of if you were in his shoes and had no idea, that the person you're "messing with" doesn't feel anything towards you.
Think About it. Put yourself in his shoes.
Good Luck!
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