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ok well i masturbate but i only started when i got a bf. i never even had wanted to or was aroused but then i started thinking more sexually and kissing him and we kinda did dry sex a couple times and talk about doing things on like IM ocassionally and so thats when i started doing it and now i do it rather often! sometimes i wish i wasnt like this and that he and i ddint talk sexually. we are good Christians too so what should i do?? we almost went to 2nd Sunday and i dont think thats bad but i wish we didnt talk about things and do dry sex but now im a sexual person with desires so we say things and do things to keep us happy. what should i do??? thanks so much!

you should definitely not be ashamed by this...its a good thing...and it definitely doesnt make you a bad person! i used to be all worried about it too (cuz im catholic) and i was like thats bad and im not a bad girl but its okay, its healthy and good for a relationship :) nothing to be ashamed of!

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much! :] great advice

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