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Hello, I'm 17/M, and I've been thinking. Having a girlfriend is something I'd like to experience before I graduate high school. The problem is, I have no idea who to ask out. I meet a girl I have chemistry with maybe once every two years, and the last two girls I had chemistry with turned out to both be complete bitches. So who do I ask out if I'm in high school? One of the millions of cute girls I don't know? One of the millions of cute girls I'm friendly with? Or do I wait around for chemistry? I'd definately start asking girls out left and right, but I haven't ever dated and I don't want to try it for the first time with someone I don't feel comfortable with.

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Who to ask out? Well, i dont know you and i dont know who would be best to ask out. thats something you need to ask yourself. ask out a girl you talk to sometimes. ask her to just hang out. if you want advice on exactlyy who, ask a guy friend. but a girl who knows you exist is a good start.

dont start asking out a million girls. i knew someone who did this and got quite the reputation. not a good idea. try asking a girl to hang out and see a movie. iff you want, bring a couple guy friends who hav e girlfriends or something so its a group thing. if you guys hit it off, you two can hang out one on one and maybe something can happen. good luck! :)

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