I am a 20 year old college student majoring in Psychology. I have had many experiences thus far in fields of love, loss, school, family, and so on. I have this great ability to listen to people and respond with the best advice possible. I am great with dealing with the recovery from the loss of a loved one (can relate to a death in the family as well). I am also very good at analyising problems within the fields of living arrangments, school/grade problems, family problems, time crunch problems, and relationship problems. I am alse really good with what people view as the "weird stuff." I've taken many Psych classes on personality, thoughts, dreams, and everything in between. So, if you have random questions along those lines, don't be afraid to ask (nothing is too weird for me)! Like my username says, I'm here for you! I have a lot of experience and knowledge I want to share so hit me up and I'll try to help you out as best I can.
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Why is it that some fellow advicenators tell young girls and boys it is okay to have sex or do other sexual acts "if they feel that they are ready" when they know that it is wrong. I believe they are just looking to get good ratings, do you agree? I'd much rather tell them the truth, that they are TOO YOUNG and have NO IDEA of potential consequences BESIDES pregnancy and get a lower rating than tell them it's okay. Am I the only one?
I suppose this can be seen as purely subjective, but is there anyone out there at or about my age (20) who thinks it's ok for 12 year olds to go around having oral sex and/or intercourse?
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I personally don't respond to anyone under the age of 18 with questions reguarding any variation of sexual activity! I, like you, am 20 and I do feel it is wrong to even give advise on stuff like that, let alone acknoledge it for the younger ones. I feel like most of the stuff they want to talk about should be their own business and no one elses, especially reguarding questions asking "should I do this or should I do that?" It is weird and faily disturbing to here about 14 year olds and their sexual activity, that is why I typically pass those questions without even reading them. Honestly, those kids can have as much sex as they want, that is their own decision. If I feel it is a question worth answering, I will give it my best shot, but I will never tell someone "you should go do it with him/her." Some people just need to make their own mistakes and figure some things out by themselves! Thanks for bringing up this topic, I completely agree with you!
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