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so I'm going to try to make this as short as possible...here it goes:
there are two guys guy #1 and 2...
#1: He is nice to me, incredibly sweet (although none of my friends or family like him and he's not very attractive), but in school (and outside of school) I never see him. So, when we are passing in the hallway or see eachother at lunch it is sooo awkward because we only talk on AIM and text, and we just like don't say anything. Well, he asked me out once, and then told me he liked me another time, and I told him I liked him too (because I do) and then he asked me if I would ever go out with a guy like him...and I said not until things becaome less awkward for us. sooo he dropped the subject and it's been weeks since he brought it up. I flirt with him a lot on text, but he can be a liar. so anyways, he brought up the subject again, but I might be liking another guy now.
#2. He is more attractive than guy #1, I talk to him at lunch (in school and on text) my friends like him, my family does too, but we nver hung out outside of school. He is tall and makes me laugh, and my friends are trying to set me up with him,, telling me how cute we are and everything, but he sends mixed signals. and I don't think he likes me as a gf, just a friend, but I'm not really sure. It's really confusing. We never talked about our relationship and whatnot, so I don't know who to like.
Can anyone help me out? comments and opinions would be greatly appeciated. thanks a bunchh. (link)
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Let's start with Guy #1:
Think about it, it seems to me that he must really have feelings for you, and is even willing to wait for you to come up with the right moment for you two to spend a little more time together.
To me, things can go well, but it would take a bit more work in that relationship for others to understand that you two might be right for each other.
Now, on to Guy #2:
Family and Friends like him, and of course you do too. He's more attractive and you can also see yourself with him for as long as possible. But the problem is, he's not being straight forward with you , and you feel you're receiving mixed messages.
You should find the strength to confront him and ask him "Where are we in this? Is it as good friends, or potential relationship?"
That's the only way you'll know for sure, what he's thinking.
Other than that, whoever fits better into your life that makes you happy should be the one to be with.
Let me know if everything goes well, either way!
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thank you sooooooooooooooooo much x 1,000,000 you really had the best advice on this one
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