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this is going to sound super shallowww.

i really really really like this kid. but, hes not cute. at all. i mean i deff. like him for his personality. hes not the type of guy i would ever date. all my boyfriends were usually football or baseball players or something. this kid is deff. far from that. i wanna like him, and i know he likes me. but, i know.. if i went out with him, people would make fun of me. i dont know if id kiss him or anything, because i'm not attracted to him like that, i mean i kinda am. but idk. do you think its worth it? it seems though, as eeach day goes by, i like him more and more. its like i have a disease.

i went through something similar to you before. this great guy who treated me like gold, but wasnt attractive. i wasnt concerned about what people would say, i just really wasnt attracted. i couldnt picture myself kissing him, nothing. so i knew i wouldnt be happy in the relationship. so i know that sounds shallow, but if he is someone you can see yourself being cuddly and kissy with, its a boyfriend material guy. if you cant stand the thought, then there is no point in dating him if you know you will be miserable, not feeling it, and leading him on. so it might be better as friends.
maybe the idea of him being so nice is attractive to you, but if you would feel uncomfortable kissing him, its like dating someone for the heck of it. maybe if you keep hanging out you will ignore his flaws and be perfectly okay with the unattractive parts.,but if you cant get past the looks,it will just be a mess in my opinion.

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(Rating: 5) thankkk youuuu. no one answered that part on what i should do if i'm not attracted to him. ha thankks.
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