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when is it too early to loose your virginity. not only age wise but relationship wise, physically, emotionally.

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and i know this is an opinionated question but thats what i want. people's opinions

i dont think you should put an age on it. i think when you feel comfortable with your partner, responsible to accept emotions that come with it as well as consequences,etc you are ready. i think its best to first wait in the relationship and get the real picture. i wouldn't do it with someone who seems to be pressuring me, getting impatient, or just in it for sex. i would wait until i feel we are serious about each other, in love, etc. although i know i said i don't think an age should be put on it, but i do believe 15 and up is acceptable if both people are in love and understand the consequences. i waited until about 17 and im almost 19 and still in the relationship. I knew when i was ready. It was clearer than day. I felt completely ready. And I think that is what people should wait for. I hate to see people getting cornered into losing it.

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