I play volleyball. I'm not just a normal teenage girl. But I am going through the same crapola of highschool like everyone else.
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okay so my boyfriend ended up breaking up with me after everything because he said that he loved one of my best friends at school and that he has ever since the beginning of last year and so basically he dated me three times while being "in love" with her and playing me thinking that he loved me. but nope i got played. and well i dont know what to do. i am fine in a way because well he has his own feelings and i understand... but well me and him are friends and me and my friend is.. but the feeling is still there (link)
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That's a little heartless of him, but he can't helps the way he feels and neither can you. You can't just rush those kind of feelings out the door. You have to take time. So many girls try to get over guys by hooking up the next day or talking shit about their ex's. The truth is you just gotta let it all out. If you wanna cry, cry. If you wanna yell, yell. You can't bottle it all up. And as for the two of you being friends. I know, every guy/girl says "Well we can still be friends" but honestly we know that's never the case. Maybe you should just take a month with no communication whatsoever with him, no talking, messaging, not even eye contact. I know that sounds extreme, but after the feelings have died down a little, it's gonna be easier to be friends. It's gonna be hard if you still have feelings for him and you're around him all the time. You have to get over him before you can befriend him.
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thanks for the advice and i was thinking the same thing after he broke off the relationship when you said we can't help how we feel.and i know that i deffinatly need to get some space before i can be friends with him..but i know that the feelings i have for him still will always be in the back of my head i just want him to be happy and i will if he is. so ya eventually i am just going to try and be a great friend.lol and thanks alot!!!!!!!!!!!!
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