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I'm Kevin or Ruminator! I took Ruminator from the word ruminate. One of it meanings is to go over in the mind repeatedly and often casually or slowly. I love helping people! I have learned not to give advice per say but listen and ask questions that opens awareness to possibly a bigger picture.

I'm still a kid in spirit! I love life! I'm very active for a 41 year old with CP (Cerebral Palsy). In September 2007 I attempted to cycle from San Diego to Portland Oregon. I only got 600+ mile, hence the word attempted. I'm happy with the adventure so on to the next one! My next adventure this spring is a hydro-foil ride from Long Beach CA to Catalina and back! Stay tune for more on this!

As I said earlier, I love helping people. I've been teaching workshops on respect and understanding differences since 1992. I now want to do more one on one help so here I am. I will try my best to give food for thought and maybe we can both ruminate!

My approach is to ask questions so you'll find answers that really apply to you. I�ll also give you my opinion but I think the best advice come from within.

advice

Which is better, to have an outgoing personality where everybody knows you, which makes you more susceptible to rumors, or to be quiet and kind of standoffish so that no one notices you, and therefore won't talk about you? I know its a weird question, but I was curious. Thanks

I was very popular in middle school and high school. I was vote most friendliest in middle school. I like to ask questions so you'll find answers that really aply to you. Do you think there are going to be rumors out there you should worry about? Do you think there's any outgoing people out there that worries about rumors? Do you think all rumors are bad?

Here's my thinking! I never worry about rumors. I try to enjoy my life and be as respectful as I can. I think if you have good intentions with whatever you're doing you'll do fine! I hope this helps! Feel free to ask me more stuff!

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(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice :)
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