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HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.


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for almost 16 years i pushed down my emotions because i just didnt learn how to deel with em like everyone else cuz while everyone else was away at skool dealin with all the drama and other stuff that you have to deal with at skool i was at home in my room 24/7 away from all human contact besides seein my parents for a few minutes when i went to eat. then they finally agreed to let me go away to skool at the age of 14 i was totally unprepared there was just too much drama goin on at one time that i just flooded with emotions about things that happened years ago and that were happenin there. i tried to learn to control my emeotions but it didnt work i was just not able to cope with em so i went back to the only way i knew how to deal with em and that was to push them deep down to were i was emotionally numb. ive been doin this for a year now and i just broke down again today i was crying and i was shakin and i was pissed and there was just so much emeotions going on threw my head i thought i was goin to die. i pushed them back down again but i know thers something wrong with me and i dont want to have to go through this anymore, is there any way i cna learn to cope with these emotions? (link)
What happens when you fill a bottle with too much water...it overflows and the water spills out outta control!Thats whats happening to you,you kept it in for so long that you can no longer do that.What you did was very wrong you should never keep your feelings in that way its mad wrong,youll break down!Dont worry this is just a state youll go through...its happend to me before a long time ago and dont worry i got through it^_^You just need to get your good share of crying and have someone to talk to!GET closer to your parents cuz noone cares for you as much as they do you just didnt give them a chance cuz your always in your room.Try to let this all out to a freind too YOU HAVE TO im serious if you dont itll end up really bad.



Some people keep things in and get stuff like panic attacks,sleeping disorders and other stuff like that.I suggest you talk to someone cuz im sure theylll help you get thru it and you have everyone on advicenators u can ask whoever u want^_^


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