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ok first of all im a tomboy so i belive that its not about looking all cute i think you should be confertable and happy and yourself when it comes to dressing i dont tease other girls or anything that would be mean but i just wanted to know why teenage girls get all dressed up every single day and all they care about is clothing and make up i dont think its really that inportant i dont want to ask them because they might get offended im just really courious why they waste all there time worrying about the way they look i just really want to know why thank you in advance sorry i im wasting your time

Well, obviously, appearance is very important to these girls. Some of them won't allow themselves to be seen in public without make up on, for example. In my opinion, its because they have low self confidence, and they spend tons of time on their appearance so that they will be more confident. These things just serve as a big confidence boost. So for these girls, looking cute, as you put it, is what makes them comfortable and happy. How do I know? I'm one of those girls. I know that if I'm going somewhere that is nerve wracking (first day of school, for example) I better look good, which means dressing in clothes that are "in," straightening my hair, etc. For example, if I had to do a presentation or a speech at school, I would most definitely spend an extra five or ten minutes in front of the mirror. The girls that have lower self confidence than I do, feel like they need to spend this time on themselves everyday.

~Maria, 16

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(Rating: 4) thank you its nice to hear it from some one who is one of those girls and im sorry if i made you feel bad thank you for answering it was very helpful

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