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Q: OK so I liked this guy for a longer period of time than I have ever liked anyone and I know it's not a big deal because I am young and all but ever since I got over him I am being hit on my alot of older guys and I am doing all kinds of crazy stuff (nothing illegal) just immmoral in my eyes. I asked another question that elaborates on this. SO am I doing this because I need to prove to myself I am over him or do I have an attention problem?

I wouldnt call it an attention problem, but it could be because you feel you need/want the attention.

Or maybe you have friends or just people who seem to pressure you into feeling you have to do this stuff with older guys?

Never push yourself more than you wanna be pushed. Just go with the flow, dont let these older people hurt you.

You havent got an attention problem, its just a feeling of being needed and wanted, your just doing what naturally comes to mind after you split up with someone cos your so used to the one on one attention. Just dont do what you dont wanna do

Rating: 4

thank you sooo much
that really helped
and I think you are right I am being pressured but I kinda like it u know to feel like an older guy is interested in me becus forever I have been the best friend and not the girl friend

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