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Q: i was talking to this guy that i have never seen him or heard him before. (his mom set us up) and i called him one night and four guys was talking to me like i was a peice of trash actually. They was asking me a whole bunch of questions, like what i was wearing and if i would have sex with them (except in a more pig-like manner.) And dont get me wrong i am not making an effort any more with him. But if he does call, which he probably wont, what should i say. I mean if talks like that with his friends, then he could talk like that all the time. And if i see him then what do i do? do i go off? cause i was really really mad. like i was crying because i was afraid of who or what i might hurt. i was shaking. and i just dont know why boys act like that and why they would want to talk like that to a girl. but what would i do in those scenarios? and would one consider the talk sexual harrasment? thanks
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Well, I would suggest (if you have his mobile) texting him to see what hes like without friends, because sometimes a guy thinks this is the best way to get a girls attention, they dont always realise its affecting you.
But if on the other hand you really dont want to talk to him, then if he does ring, answer and say im sorry but i dont like the way you spoke to me last time so until i get an apology I dont want to hear from you again.
If you see him, then avoid him, if he comes over then ask him what he wants, and if its anything you dont want to answer, then walk off. You wont be hurting anyone.
Yes it is sexual harrassment, maybe you can mention it to his mum? Or anyone who talks to him? See if they can say to him that his behavious around you is not acceptable.
Underlining it I would say...
*Avoid him as much as possible physically, however if he phones/texts, then answer and ask for an apology, and sternly say until I get one I dont want to hear from you again, good luck
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well see i already texted him, way before all of that, and he was actually really sweet. Me and him got along great! but the thing is i think he was sitting there watching his friends and laughing with them. they just kept repeating though that he wouldnt save me and then i called back after they hung up on me to give them a lil bit more of a peice of my mind. and this girl told me he wasnt there. I just dont know what to believe. only two asked for sex, but all 4 asked what i was wearing. the first one though said heres sterling, wait no here is jimmy. im just confused really...But thank you! :)
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Well...
Im just under 6'0, Im a model, I enjoy horse riding, figure skating, and shopping :)
I have blonde hair, blue eyes & Im a slim build.
Im your average teenager who has suffered the same as any other teenage and much more, or maybe much less compared to some :)
Ill give you my answer as I feel is correct, if its a question I have familiarity with then you will get an answer which I find best suited :)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Southbourne/Bournemouth Occupation: Ice Skating Marshal/Model Age: 17 MSN: MissMarizzle@hotmail.co.uk Member Since: July 18, 2007 Answers: 117 Last Update: July 11, 2008 Visitors: 8153
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