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Okay.

So I just found out 2 of my friends had a sleepover without me and are hiding it from me.

It's fine, because I know they're hiding it from me with good intentions. It hurts a little bit...but I'm pretty sure it's good intentions.

You see, they know my Mum would probably wouldn't let me go, so instead of giving me the pain of knowing they're having fun at a sleepover just pretend it isn't happening.

However I don't know how to react when I hang out with them tomorrow. Do I tell them I know about it? Do I pretend I don't know? I'm really stuck here, help?

The thing that makes it awkward is they both lied about what they were doing. One of them said she was out at dinner, then she said she had people over and couldn't come online.

If you're wondering how I know, let me say: MySpace comments are never secure. Someone will always read something you say to someone which you want to keep a secret.

Bring it up in a gentle way that shows that you aren't extremely offended about it and then discuss it with them. It's better that you have it out in the open and out of everyone's minds. Talk it out nicely for 15 minutes or so and then everyone can move on with a clear conscience.

If you don't, you'll be thinking about it the whole time and so will they. They are probably feeling awkward too because they think that you don't know and they are sort of betraying you. You will all have a much better time if you get it out into the open.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :)
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