OK, so my bf and I have been going out for about 5-6 months. This has been, by far, my longest relationship (i'm 13, so yeah...). Me and him always talk on myspace and at school and stuff, but lately, he's just WAY too predictible :/. I hate it but on myspace, we always joke around about how long we will go out and stuff, and say stuff like "well, I'm not going to break up with you so, if we do break up, you'll be the one doing it". Yeah, I know, it was stupid to say that stuff. Anyway, everyone thinks we're the "perfect couple" and part of me wants to see how long our relationship will last, because I have been known for having very short relationships. There are also some things about him that I DO love, but I want to break up with him, yet I don't. Also, there's this other guy. He's really the whole pack, funny, sweet, and everything. I like him a lot (yeah, I know it's bad) but next year, he's going to a different highschool than me so I only have this year with him. I know that if I could hit it off with him, we'd stay in touch :]. I just don't know what to do now. I have problems in relationships because eventually, I just get bored of the guy. It's more fun to chase the guy than to have them (It sounds shallow doesn't it?). I just don't know what to do, and I can't talk to anyone because all of my friends are the gossip-type. Even if they say they won't tell, they will. I'm so confused :( help?
trust me on this. if you dont like him break it off. it will make it easier on him. at 13 its normal for girls to want to be single cause you want to be open to every opportunity possible. dont wait to see how long it can last. it destroyss all chances of ever getting with the guy you really like. by the way i know exactly how you feel about the friends thing because me and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up a week ago and i was really upset. they talked about me behind my back the next day about how annoying i was being. so if youu want you can talk to me ! :]. well just pick the guy you like more. itll work out better if you do.
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Thanks SO much :]
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