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ok so i might sound like a complete loser.. but me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year, and at the begining it was great, i thought i was so in love with him and i just always wanted to be with him. but as it went on i started excluding my friends and eventually my friends just stopped talking to me because i would always turn them down when they wanted to hang out and ect. for my boyfriend. and now my boyfriend is pretty much the only friend i have. for the past few months ive realized that i dont really even like him much anymore. hes become a total jerk to me, but the only reason i think ive stayed with him is beacuse i think i love him because hes the only one there for me.. idk what to do?

i know exactly how you feel. i have been with mine for almost 2 yrs..and the difference is i ditched my friends right away. i would see my boyfriend all day everyday. i even spent an entire summer barely seeing them. i am one lucky person to still have my great friends. i made things better, i apologized, and i definitely started hanging out with them again. now we are in college , so when they come home for break i make it priority to see them.
what you should do is this:
- keep in mind good friends will ALWAYS be there..your bf may not
-definitely talk to your friends and apologize!
-hang out with them more often! work out a system where one weekend you spend friday night with your bf and saturday night with your friends.
change your ways, dotn ditch them again

-making a card,photo album, etc for your friends could be a great idea.
-spell it out to your bf that you dont want to continue with no friends and seeing him constantly.
good luck,.i hope everything works out well with your friends

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