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I was at a party last night....
There was this kid there that I didnt actually talk to but I was talking to his friend. The reason I didnt talk to him because I guess I was shy or whatever, I dont know but man I dont know If I should add him on myspace or not. Because the thing is, I havent ever spoken to him before... and maybe he'll think like "who is this girl?" but then again... what's the wrong thing that could happen, right? I keep trying to tell myself that but I can't seem to get the courage to do so. He goes to my school and he's older and stuff, and I definately don't talk to him there because one, I barely see him and two, Im shy :/

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I am so happy he accepted! OK, now just message him. Like i said before, make small talk, hopefully if he is interested he will be talkative too and maybe after a couple messages back and forth talking about the party, or a funny story from that night, you can ask him to hang out , go to a school game together, etc. like i said earlier, go ahead and flirt! comment his pics, be talkative, ask questions, be yourself! and if he isnt interested , then let it go but you have nothing to lose!

you should definitely add thhis guy! you have nothing to lose at all. you can add him along with sending him a message saying hey whats up i think i saw you at that party. and get some small talk convo going on and eventually you two might hang out and who knwos there can be something there! i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and for 6 months we were just random friends on myspace who didnt talkk until we started talking and decided to hang out! :) so you just never know..

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