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i just have a general question,
if you like someone, and they acted out of their character or hurt you in some verbal way-(nothing harsh/racially offensive), would you stop liking them or would your feelings persist?
this is stupid question but it's just i've noticed how some let go very easily once they are slightly doubtful and others strongly believe in forgiving, what's the norm?

Ehh, it really depends on the person.
I`m pretty much the type of person who only gives second chances & sometimes I`ll only give a person one chance, depending on who & what was said.

For most people, it`s pretty difficult to just suddenly quit liking a person. For other people, it might take time to let go, so it just happens gradually. & for others, depending on how close they are with this person, they may forgive very easily.

If you`re very close with this person, you`ll probably give them a second chance.
& usually if you`re not too close with this person, you`ll probably gradually let go.

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