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I like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.

I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.

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I know I like guys.
I have actually been pretty boy-crazy all of my life.
But then I saw the male....parts, and I really
wasn't that "turned on" by it. In fact, I thought
it was kind of gross. Does this mean I'm a lesbian?
Or is it just because I haven't been exposed to
the male body my whole life? I'm really worried,
that I might never want to have sex with a guy.
And yet, I still really like them, and I like their
faces and some other things about them.
But recently, I've started to realize, well some
girls are pretty cute too, and they are A LOT nicer
than guys are. And they seem a lot less perverted.
Like, you could really make an emotional connection,
not just a physical one. That's my problem with guys.
They're so perverted, and there's no one here that I like,
I've been single for almost 2 years now.
So anyways, my question is, do you think I'm Bi?
Or do you think I'm just lonely?
Or shocked by the male body?

I'm guessing you are like 13?
No, it doesn't necessarily mean you are bisexual or a lesbian. Yes, you could be, but right now you are just curious.
You might be bi, and it sort of sounds lime it, but this also might just be a phase. If you are bi, don't worry about it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
Happy New year (ALMOST!)

xxtiffany

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