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16/female.
i just want to know how do you know when you're in love?
I mean, I really want the real answers. I know it's different for everyone and I know "it's something you can't explain. you just know."
But I really can't tell between real love, physical lust, or just plain hormones.
I know I'm young and apparently, too young to know what love is.
But it feels so real.
I liked him from the start. He was smart, witty, charming, fun, nice, interesting. Everything appealed to me. Eventually, he had me completely. my heart, my mind. just everything.
During the summer, I really wanted to get over it because he's leaving for college next August and I went 3 months without talking to him and the feelings still were the same. I didn't like him any less.
It's hard for me to flirt with other guys now. It's weird. I just don't feel attracted to anyone else and the more I try to flirt with another guy, the more I miss him.
It's just something that's there..I don't know what it is.
We used to like each other a lot and we were close to dating but not anymore. Do you have to be dating someone to be in love with them?
so basically, my two questions are
How do you know when you're in love and it's not hormones?
and do you have to be with someone to love him?
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no you do NOT have to be dating him to love him. you just have to have a close relationship.
physical lust is when his emotions don't appeal much to you, just his body.
hormones is when you go through roller-coaster-feelings. you really like him one minute, then you're all over another guy the next.
love is when he's the only one you want. constantly think about him and how grateful you are to have him, how good he makes you feel(not sexually). if you were to lose him, any other guys just couldn't compare.
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Wow, well said. You have no idea how much you helped me :)
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