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ok today me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months , we've had major ups and downs . but latley its just been downs , we love each other very much ; but we are so jelous its creating problems more nad more everyday , i cant even remember the last time we've went the WH0LE day with out one argument . its eaither always over some girl or some boy . we are very jelous & it kills me , we call each other bitches and ass holes it breaks my heart . we know we both love each other very much but we need help . i mean reall good advice . we both dont want this to end but its not lookin good .

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I think you should plan a special day for the two of you. Maybe have a candlelit dinner, rent some movies, or go out somewhere to a nice place, comedy club, BUT before you go out, i would just have a talk with him. remind yourselves of the good times, maybe bring out some pictures or talk about the cute memories you may have shared. Then what needs to take place is something to rebuild TRUST, because trust is the issue here. Ask him who and what makes him feel jealous and threatened? If it will make you two feel better maybe go through your cell phones or myspace messages to prove there is nothing going on behind each others back. Hopefully after this one time the two of you can move on and trust each other. The two of you need to make an effort to not fight.

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