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I really want help for my cutting but i dont know how to get help. besides my friends should i tell someone? i CANT let my parents know and most people would go and tell my parents. and without my parents knowing i cant join a support group or see a counselor. what should i do!?!?!?! Thank you SO much!!!!!

Hey, im really sorry to hear that you cut =(

Well i think that firstly, you've done yourself good by admitting that you have a problem and want to do something about it =)

I do think that you need to tell people; tell friends that you trust or whoever else you talk to, im sure that none of them will tell your parents if you ask them not to.

You need to determine WHY you cut and maybe try to solve that problem first. You should also try to find another way to express your emotions rather than cutting. Maybe make a pact with one of your friends that if you feel like cutting, then you should phone him/her so that you can talk things through and take your mind off things. Or even just do SOMETHING that will take your mind off it and make you smile.

If this approach, or whatever one you choose to go by doesnt work, then i think you should maybe go see a doctor (they cant tell your parents due to confidentiality) who will refer you to someone that you can talk to and will give you the help that you need.

After that, if you STILL feel theres no way out, then i suggest that you DO tell your parents. Im sure they will apprechaite that you told them and even if they do react badly, they will be able to help you get help and hopefully solve your problem.

Good luck and i really hope this helped =)
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(Rating: 5) thanks so much thats great advice! :)
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