about

My name is Cali, and I've been told I am a good advice-giver.

advice

so i really like this guy and he really likes me. and when i talk to guys or basically just like mention a guy he doesnt know, he will get jealous. and if i talk to someone he doesnt normally talk to, like on AIM, he starts talking to them too. that part makes me a little mad, but whatever. but lately, ive been looking on his facebook and myspace and there's this girl .... thats definately flirting with him. and in his AIM profile, she is in it. but he flirts with so many girls and i dont know if he realizes it, but it seems like they like him because of the way they flirt, and he flirts back. and this girl was moved from not even on his myspace top friends, to wayyyy up on his top friends. and this one comment she sent him on myspace was "i lovee you too" which means he said i love you first. and its making me really upset because i dont want to lose him, or for him to do things with her, like kiss her or something.

From what I understand, this guy isn't your boyfriend; he is just a guy that you like. I understand that it sometimes makes you angry when he gets jealous, but that's hypocritical considering you get jealous too. Maybe he doesn't realize he is flirting with these girls. Basically all you can do is talk to him and ask him to be honest. If he realyl likes you, he will try and tone it down when he sees that this upsets you.
-16/f

[view]

(Rating: 5) thank you, your answer definately helped me out and ill be sure to come back to your advice column if i need more help.
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker