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Okay, so I like my best guy friend. Thing is, hes enagaged. He will call and ask if I want to go over to his house and play videogames. He referrs to the times when I go over to his house as "dates." He also says that he plays better when I am not around because when I sit next to him I make him nervous. He is always flirting with me. He will tease me, playfully hit me, and playfully kick me in the butt. He is also sensitive to my feelings, and is always trying to figure out what is wrong when I am upset so he can make it better. If he goes to the store, he will usually ask if I would like to go with him, or if I go to the store he will usually go with me because he said that he would feel bad if something happened to me. Also when we go out he will pay for me. I try to pay him back, but he wont let me. Also when I leave his house to go back to mine he will walk me out and watch me as I walk home to make sure I make it okay(we're neighbors. he lives like 2 houses down from me.)
Now him and his fiance have been engaged for almost a year now. They have not set a date, and they do not live together. They only see eachother on saturday, but other than that, they talk on the phone a couple times a day. She is leaving soon for another 4 years of college in another city, some 400 miles away and he is not going with her.
Before I ask my questions though, I would like to add: As much as I do like this guy, I would never get involved with him as long as he is with his fiance. I have no intentions of breaking them up either. If they were to break up, I dont want it to be because of me.
So onto the questions. Do you think he likes me? Do you think he is possibly having second thoughts about getting married? And do you think its weird that they are engaged but dont live together and havent set a date for their wedding yet??
I know this is kind of long, so I appreciate you all for taking the time to read and respond to this. Thanks! (link)
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Well from that, I know he really cares about you and it is possible he has feelings for you plus second thoughts on his engagement. I respect you greatly for as much as you like him to not want them to break up especially because of you. I know how much these kind of situations suck.
Maybe, try randomly and jokingly bring up "so when are you two setting a date?" and see what his facial reaction is. And for a better reaction, try doing that when he is messing around with you.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you. His wedding does get brought up every once in a while. When it does get brought up, he will answer the question and quickly change the subject. Also when they talk on the phone, when he tells her he loves her, he doesnt sound very enthusiastic, like he HAS to say it or something. I dont know. I just want him to be happy....even if Im not. Thanks again for the advice. I appreciate it.
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