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Q: Okay, so here goes. I'm 15/f he's 15/m
I met his this school year and he is so perfect. I'm not even kidding when I say perfect. He's a complete gentleman, he respects everyone, he is very kind and generous and nice, he is really friendly, he is funny, he is very smart, he can draw like whoa, and he works out every morning and *drool*
Anyways, the problem is I don't know if he likes me back because he's in general a really nice person (from what I can tell anyway) He asked me for my e-mail in a really gentleman type of way and my phone number (which I kind of stupidly didn't give) & he's walked me to a class and stayed with me in the hallway for a while because I didn't want to go to the class he walked me to. He's a touchy feely type of person and so am I so we always hug. But he is like so amazing and I'm head over heels for him!
Should I just wait and try to figure him out more before trying to figure out if he likes me? i mean, I've only known him for about 2 months now and I don't even know if he's just like that with everyone or just me =/
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He likes you. Boys at this age don't waste their time with girls they don't like!
If he's a gentleman, be a lady. Get him a simple gift or make him some cookies. Involve him in CONVERSATION--talk about politics, religion, world issues, art, etc. Not only is it fascinating to see what other people thing, it will let him know that you're not just some airhead girl who likes his looks. Show him that you're worth the effort!
Talk to him about his drawing and do research about it. I am an artist as well, and when someone shows interest in my drawings it's a VERY high compliment, because it's what I put real effort into.
It's not too late to give him your phone number. Just hand it to him and say, "I'd like you to call me some time if you're not too busy. Can I have yours too?" Keep it smooth. ;)
v.s. f/22
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Great advice but can I give you one pointer? You should be careful about what you put in your advices like this: "it will let him know that you're not just some airhead girl who likes his looks" because it sounds like you're implying that I am some airheaded girl even if you don't mean to (I hope you didn't mean that). But anyways, great advice and I've always talk with him about everything and I've only seen one of his drawing and I'm complimented one too many times =P
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People have been coming to me for advice so long, I might as well do this all in one spot. I watch a lot of unfathomable Japanese TV and drink a lot of coffee. I'm a freshly-hatched Illustration major, formerly trapped & dying in the American South, now busily teaching phrases to all of Nagoya Japan. I'm always on the lookout for more video games and sushi.
I have lots of interesting pets. Wanna see my beetle?
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Website: Gender: Female Location: America, now Nagoya Occupation: Eigo sensei/Illustrator Age: 22 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: December 5, 2003 Answers: 255 Last Update: October 11, 2008 Visitors: 23030
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