"The actuality is, it's their intent to cause harm, and the betrayal that is hurting you." Wow. I never thought of it like that. I had to read that over again. You know, it makes sense. It really does. It makes me want to work on, even more so, watching what i say when i am upset, or when i feel hurt, and it makes me realize that it isn't me...it is them wanting me to feel what they feel. I really never thought about that, and that is eye opening. I only hope that I can become more compassionate and more loving, allowing that retaliation to affect me less and less. Thank you. I will think about that if something happens in the future. :)

Yeah, we took him to the vet, he had a small bladder problem and we were giving him medication for that. We noticed though that when we stopped giving him his favorite brand of cat food, he stopped peeing in places. When we gave it to him again, he'd pee. So I'm guessing that's the main reason.

Great advice but can I give you one pointer? You should be careful about what you put in your advices like this: "it will let him know that you're not just some airhead girl who likes his looks" because it sounds like you're implying that I am some airheaded girl even if you don't mean to (I hope you didn't mean that). But anyways, great advice and I've always talk with him about everything and I've only seen one of his drawing and I'm complimented one too many times =P

thanks so so much. It made me feel so much better. You're a truly great advice columnist.

Thank You Very Much. <3

thanks so much

i meant only the blue stone attached to the tube.. the pump is in a dry place

thanks

thanks but its too late now

Your advice really sucked...Truth is i do have my own friends..but my brother is my life he basically rasied me and Been threw everything with me...Maybe you dont have a brother or sister so u wudnt no..But If you do have a brother or a sister then its pretty obusous ur not as close as me and my brtoher are

I understand the risks, ive been twice...over 5 days..and once i get a little darker im not gonna go as often. Im not doing this to be more attractive, im just so pale i cant stand it!

Thank you for answering me about Eddie Izzard and the whole badger thing. :-)

The lighting thing really bugs me, just because I'm on the ground floor, so if my lights are on, my room is visible to the whole wide world. So if I'm reading or doing anything that requires light, I have my curtains shut. Which doesn't create the nicest atmosphere in the middle of the day. Thanks for your advice. It's comforting to know I'm not the only person bothored by lighting in a room.

lol ok

THANKS

I don't even have happy poems. I just have less depressing more descriptive poems. I hate all my older ones because most of those feelings have died, and my poetry teachers have drilled in my head the weakness of writing with emotion (Which is the basis for all of my earlier work). My new stuff lacks a lot, so it all sucks. I'm a pretty good artist though.

Incredible advice. Thanks so much!

GOLLY you're incredible with the detailed answers and the precise solutions! Thank you so much!

Judgemental

I never said I don't trust him.

Thanks. You were very nice and helpful, unlike that other person who called me stupid. I appreciate people like you who really want to help.

gee thanks a lot! that is a big deal, Its such a big deal that i couldnt even tell YOU!!! thanks a lot a** hole

your not suppose to use alcohol or hydrogen peroxide on piercings

People have been coming to me for advice so long, I might as well do this all in one spot. I watch a lot of unfathomable Japanese TV and drink a lot of coffee. I'm a freshly-hatched Illustration major, formerly trapped & dying in the American South, now busily teaching phrases to all of Nagoya Japan. I'm always on the lookout for more video games and sushi.
I have lots of interesting pets. Wanna see my beetle?

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