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well i guess this isnt really sex, but it was close enough haha.
alright so recently i got fingered for the first time by my boyfriend that i realllly like a lot, but the problem is i dont see wht the big deal is. like i dont really seem to enjoy it. It feels weird, even. like it doesnt feel good, like people say it does. i dont know if its because its the first time ive ever done anything like that and i need to just get used to it, or if hes doing something wrong.
and im really like sexually attracted to him, so thats not the problem
please please help, i would really appreciate it :)
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Because it was your first time you probably were nervous or a little uncomfortable making your body tense. Just relax, also if he is to rough don't be afraid to guide him and show him what you like, experament yourself so you know what you like. Also don't think you have to rush into anything, first become comfortable with yourself and take your time, if you rush into thinks you might find yourself bored, have fun with the little things like kissing and touching and when you move into a step like fingering you will be much more comfortable.
(Rating: 5) this helped a lot :)) thanksss!